Thursday, January 15, 2015

So you’ve found the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. How do you ask her to be yours — forever? You should push your nervousness aside and remember that, once you have a game plan and know what to expect, you’ll be able to propose to your girlfriend without blundering the whole thing. You don’t have to do anything too over-the-top or crazy, unless you think that’s what she wants. What’s most important is that you speak from the heart, and that you find the perfect way to let her know how much she means to you. If you want to know how to propose to a woman, see Step 1 to get started. Make sure it’s some where so romantic or in public so she’ll definitely say yes not no! But remember to ask the parents if you can marry her over wise they will not be happy with you!

Make sure she’s the one. You’ve probably already been thinking this over for some time. The important thing is to know that you love her and consider her to be “the one”. Write down or think through a list of all the reasons that make you want tomarry her. This will be important for expressing your love to her at the proposal, as well as confirming to yourself that you’re making the right decision. When you see your girlfriend, you should feel that you absolutely want to share the rest of your life with her, and that the time is right for you to tell her that.
Be as sure as you can be that she’ll say yes. Though it’s impossible to be able to predict with 100% accuracy that she’ll say yes to you, you should have a pretty strong sense that your girlfriend loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you. See if she’s dropped hints that she wants to get married (to you), that she wants to move in to a house with you, to have kids, to make you a part of her family, and so on. If she’s never mentioned these things, then you can try out some feeler conversations to get a sense of her feelings; if she acts uncomfortable or deflects your questions, then she may not be ready to get married.
If her parents are old-fashioned and your significant other wouldn’t find it offensive or sexist, you could consider asking her parents for permission.Although asking a father’s permission is considered by many to be old-fashioned, it hasn’t died out precisely because it’s a gesture that suggests that you respect her and her family and that you’re always going to be considerate of her family. It’s also a sign of politeness, and what family can resist that? But again, it really depends on the girl and her family situation, so try to feel it out.
Decide when to propose. It’s important to get the timing right, and timing is really only something that you can work out. It’s not possible to say that there are perfect times to propose, but it is important that you propose at a time when you’re not rushed and when you feel calm, sorted, and ready. Once you’ve planned the proposal in as much detail as possible, then the time will be right. Here are some things to keep in mind:
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